Anyone fancy having their girlfriend or their boyfriend, or you can also say it as in your ?love? flirting with a third-party?? Means, another girl? or another boy?
If you say yes, I SALUTE you!! 
A friend of mine was complaining about his girlfriend, Yes! his Girlfriend flirting with other guys online and he doesn?t like it. When he told me, I was woaahhh, girls also huh? I thought only guys does this flirting stuff? Okay that didn?t happen. I was a little stunned, but nothing new actually.
In our current world, the 21st century, I think this flirting stuff is something that can?t be stopped. You know like when the Tsunami is coming, you can?t stop it right? Something like that. Maybe not? Whatever.
Girls, guys, they all love flirting. If there?s a person come up to me and say, I don?t know what flirting is? One word, LIAR!
Flirting! Especially when you?re being in a relationship! It?s so not cool okay? If you ask me, is it okay for my boyfriend or for anyone else that are in a relationship to flirt? No, I do not think this is okay. You are not being committed to your current relationship and you are leading someone else on without any intention of having a relationship with the person you are flirting with. Someone will get hurt this way!
?Committed? means that you reserve displays of affection for that one person. Flirting is a sign of playful affection that is one of those displays: both the flirter and the flirtee are a part of the exchange? and ?someone? is left out in the cold. Or supposed to, what? Watch? I don?t think so.
Some people feel it?s acceptable to to let their partner to flirt as long as he/she doesn?t touch. For me, I believe, that if you truly love your partner, you do not need the extra attention from outsiders, only yours. Let?s say if you?re really a natural-born flirter, and if your boy/girl knows and it?s okay, then I can say that you?re not a flirt, but if you?re hiding it, then it?s a yes.
Another thing just came up into my mind. If you love your partner, shouldn?t you be like completely into your partner? Wouldn?t your partner be the only girl/boy in your mind? Because really, it would upset me if a guy said he loved me but still flirted with other girls!
I believe flirting is hurtful and cheating. It may be just in your personality but while in a relationship you should take into account you?d be hurting your partners feelings and that?s not right. Your partner is always number one and you should always try to treat him/her with respect and love. If he/she feels so badly about you flirting then you should change for his/her sake.
To shorten things up, listen here.. no.. okay read this..
If you?re in a committed relationship, flirt with the one you love. It will deepen that commitment, and keep it special. You can be friendly and kind to others, but flirtation is off-limits ~ unless you?re looking for a way to ?un-commit? but flirting with others is a cowardly and indirect way to end things. Better to just say, ?I?m not ready for this level of commitment,? and go flirt away.
If you?re in a committed relationship go by the old saying ?treat others as you wish to be treated.? How would you feel if your sister/brother called you and said ?I just saw your gf/bf flirting with some boy/girl in the mall!? Now tell me would you be okay with that?.?? Oh kinda hard now that the shoe is on the other foot huh? Yes it seem harmless to flirt online or when the bf/gf isn?t around. But you are better off acting the way you would when he/she is around even if he/she might not be any where to be seen. I mean how twisted is it that you would want your partner to be faithful and trustworthy but you don?t want to be faithful or to earn trust? I don?t mean to talk much here but it does say that even looking at a woman/man with lust is cheating?
Here are some simple rules to be understood.
Anything you wouldn?t do in front of your significant other ? you shouldn?t be doing when he/she isn?t around.
Any behavior that you would be uncomfortable with your significant other seeing while you are unaware ? shouldn?t be done either.
Anything you say that you wouldn?t want your significant other to overhear or hear about second had ? you might want to avoid.
All relationships are different and it depends on the other person.? The best thing is to ask who you?re with.. and gauge if you would be okay if that person was flirting with someone else.
To end this up, For me, Flirting = Cheating. What about you?? What do you think about flirting?
Source: http://unpredictablepreety.wordpress.com/2012/08/06/flirt-commitment/
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